You
might be surprised to learn that sociologists have estimated that
approximately ninety percent of human communication is non-verbal –
and, luckily for you, you can use body language to attract women once
you know what to do. If you’re one of those men who has no idea
about how to attract women with body language, then you have probably
faced challenges with communicating with the opposite sex time and
time again.
Are
you ready to change the way women relate to you? Would you like to
have the upper hand before you have even said a single word? If so,
here are three ways you can change your approach and get results
today.
Step
One: Confident Gestures Are A Must
Take
a “field trip” with the intent of watching other men – really,
watching them closely. You are looking for body language clues that
give you insight into their personalities. Insecure gestures like
fidgeting, slumped posture, indecisive motions, and looking around
with an air of uncertainty will show you what not to do – right
away!
Consider
how these uncertain gestures and less than attractive body language
might factor in to these guys’ ability to attract a woman? Now,
notice whether you make any of these gestures yourself. Pay close
attention to the gestures you make, and be sure you project an air of
confidence. If you slouch, sit up straight. If you have a tendency
to look around uncertainly, make plans ahead of time about your goals
and walk through life as if you know exactly where you are going.
Step
Two: Own Your Space
Women
love men who are confident and dominant without being overbearing.
Look at the most confident men, and notice that they tend to take up
some personal space. Watch movies where the stars are confident,
dominant men, and pay attention to their body language and the way
they display confidence with every motion. These men never look like
they are trying to stay out of the way, and they look comfortable and
at home – no matter where they are. If you have a tendency to
dodge other people or make yourself seem as small and insignificant
as possible, you’ll find yourself losing in the game of attraction.
Step
Three: Don’t Be Afraid To Enter Her Personal Space
The
third, and final step to using confident body language to attract
women involves entering a woman’s personal space as you approach to
talk to her. You don’t get in her face – but you do enter the
intimate, familiar conversation zone that is normally reserved for
close friends and family members. When you do this, you demonstrate
your own level of comfort in conversation, and you also show that you
are not afraid to touch her – do this by giving a light touch on
the forearm after you have been speaking for a short time.
When you use light touches, playful hip checks, and even a flirty poke in the arm, you show that you feel comfortable and powerful. If you begin by touching a personal item like a bracelet or other item she is carrying, you can ease the tension very quickly. Do this by paying a sincere compliment about the item you are touching – this gives you the perfect excuse for moving in closer.
Last,
but certainly not least, don’t be afraid to practice your new
skills. Using body language designed to attract women gives you the
opportunity to see whether what you are doing works or not – so go
out and practice with women you don’t find intimidating. Once you
feel more comfortable with your new techniques, and once you feel you
are confident with the skills you have learned, you will find that
using body language to attract women is simpler than you may have
ever imagined.
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