Most
of us date someone or the other during our college life. But when the
reason is only public acceptance, then dating can become quite a
burden.
To
prevent things going ugly and your dating life run smooth, it’s
important for both of you to stay equally happy. For making your
dating life fun and not like a heavy burden, first of all, choose
someone carefully. If you are careful while selecting and only after
well observing a person’s good and bad, choose him or her, chances
are that you two will hook on well together. However, if you just go
for the college candy without giving a damn to how he or she will fit
in with you, you are sure to face arguments and fights.
If
it’s your partner’s birthday or some other special day, and you
are planning a surprise, make sure you consult a close friend of
theirs for their preferences etc. Since you are in college, you two
would be having some common friends and you can take their help.
College dating can be quite heavy on the pocket as you are always cash
strapped in college. More is always less! That is why, you need to be
really careful where to go. Remember more fun can be had at a hill
view restaurant which is cheap than a formal restaurant where prices
are sky high! You are in college and you have to keep control of your
funds. Both of you should equally divide the expenses so that it’s
not much trouble to either. Please don’t follow the norm of “guy
always pays”. It is outdated and totally unfair.
You
may have hundreds of things on your mind during college life, and
that is why forgetting dates like birthday or anniversary can pour
water over your college dating life. Be smart, put on alerts and
reminders on your laptop and mobile to keep you updated. You can also
use email reminder services to help you out with this.
Gifts
form an integral part of college dating but it’s quite tough to
manage much of them within your college budget. But if you just put
in some thinking, you may save quite a bit and end up giving gifts
which are better than other’s. Handmade gifts top the list.
If
you are quite popular in college, your partner may have jealousy fits
when they see the opposite sex throwing themselves at you. Be
manipulative and avoid those who insist on being with you too much.
Acknowledge and respect your partner in public. Giving your partner
importance when surrounded by people is sure to make them proud and
happy. Support your partner at all counts. Don’t point out their
negativities in public. Have a private talk for issues. If you are
having a fight, don’t say bad things about them to your friends,
things are bound to leak out and you will regret it later. Just go
and talk directly.
If
you
really feel for the person you are
with and really want to make your dating life go smooth, some
thoughts are all that are needed! So all the best!
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