Your money doesn’t matter nearly as much as most
guys think it does. The car you drive, the house you own, the job you
have – none of these things are as important as most guys believe.
It’s all about your presence, and how you create and work with that
presence.
But although these things don’t matter, you
shouldn’t ignore them. You don’t need to have a lot of money, but
it can be useful if you do. You don’t need to be good looking, but
you should still try to look your best. You don’t need to do any of
these things, but they can’t hurt. One of the best examples of this
is with your smell – you don’t need to use man scented body
washes or wear cologne, but if you’re okay with it, you absolutely
should.
Why You Should Smell Good
The reality is that even if it doesn’t seem like
it, those Old Spice body washes, Axe deodorants, and Polo colognes
can help you when it comes to impressing girls. Guys don’t like to
hear it, but those “man” scented items can actually help you get
women. They have very real benefits, which include:
- Five Senses
Smell is one of the five senses, and one of only
two that isn’t covered by most dating techniques is smell. The
other three senses are all part of standard techniques for meeting
women. The visual is the way you carry yourself, the hearing is the
conversation you have, and the touch occurs when you touch her or
take up space. The only senses unrepresented are taste and smell.
When you smell great, you’re overwhelming another one of her
senses. You can save the “taste” sense for later.
- Memory
Scent is also connected directly to memory. In
fact, studies have shown that scent is actually the most memorable of
the five senses. When you smell great, you’re leaving a memory with
her. Your great scent will then be associated with you, and she’ll
think more positively about you. If you also impress her with your
conversation, you’ll even make her think about you whenever she
smells the same scent in the future.
- Avoiding Bad Smells
Having no smell won’t hurt you. Girls don’t
need guys that smell good. But they can be a bit turned off by guys
that actively smell bad. For the same reason that smelling good helps
the girl associated you with the good scent, so too does a bad smell
associate you with a bad scent. You don’t want to be associated
with any bad smells, so using products that make you smell good help
decrease the chances of any negative associations.
Smell Like a Man, Man
The non-stop advertising campaigns designed to get
guys to believe that smelling good will win them lots of women are
false. You don’t need to smell good. You need to carry yourself
like an alpha male and do what it takes to impress women. But just
because they’re not necessary doesn’t mean they won’t help.
There are legitimately good reasons to smell good for women, and it’s
something you should strongly consider when you’re ready to enhance
your dating.
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