Why Your Crush Rejected You

Think of your last big crush that wasn’t interested in you. Chances are you worshipped her, and thought she was perfect. She could do no wrong. You tried to show her how much you care about her, and how you’ll make her happy, and she wasn’t interested at all. She may have even gone out with some jerk. You probably convinced yourself it’s because she’s attracted to bad guys.

That’s not it at all.

The truth is, she’s attracted to guys that she sees the exact way you see her. She wants a guy that can get any girl he wants. She wants a guy that CHOOSES her, not a guy that wants her and only her. She wants to be the one to prove to a guy that she’s worth it, not the other way around.

The reason your attempts failed is because you were trying to win her love. But women are attracted to guys that THEY feel they have to earn. It’s why they end up going out with jerks. Because jerks are the kinds of guys that don’t look like they’re begging for their affection.
So the next time you wonder why the girl you’re into doesn’t seem to like you back, you’ve answered your own question. The reason she doesn’t like you back is because she’s the only girl you’re into, and she isn’t attracted to guys that she doesn’t have to impress. Never focus on any one girl. Instead, get to know any and all women you meet, and let them fight it out over you.