The
phrase “dating rules for women” might offend some people. There
have been a lot of controversies in the US about the same. But this
is I guess a little over rated. There has been a lot of book and
articles written about the subject and the advantages of the same is
limited top the ladies who would go against the general norms of
these being bad. The idea of alluring men is not the best way to
define the rule book for dating for women. The same is basically a
structured approach towards finding the right partner for oneself.
The
problem is not the rules of dating sketched for women; the actual
concern is how the concept of dating is conceived at the first place.
Dating is a real healthy way to look out for compatibility with the
other male counter part. God has made men and women – they are not
only biological different there are psychological differences as
well, which is not very easy to distinguish in an event of arguments.
Therefore when to people decide to live their lives together by
getting married, it is very important that not only should they
understand each other but at the same time they should be compatible
with each other in as many aspect as possible. This would only be
possible when you would know the other person. Keeping that in mind
and dating is a healthy thing. But the problem is that it is
misconceived by many and it is more of a game to get laid, which
makes every thing dirty.
You
could never know that the person you are looking at while on the
first date, that is he for real or is he just following the rules of
dating. The same goes for women as well. These rules of dating for
women and men make the entire concept of dating fail in case the same
is used as a tool to impress some one and not being what you are.
That is the reason that most of the arranged marriages last more than
the one resulting from dating. The same could again be blamed to thedating rules which make the men and women look superficial.
The
above doesn’t mean that ladies should not look at these to get he
most of the date they are going out with. This just means that ladies
should use these dating rules with a genuine intention o f looking
for the Mr. Right and at the same time to be able to gauge the real
man behind what the date is posing to be.
